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Kink checklist app4/14/2024 ![]() ![]() Under what circumstances should the scene stop if things don’t go well?.Are there any warning signs of bad emotional space?. ![]() What are your hard limits (in general and for this scene)?.If you’re using safewords, what are they?.Will you be using safewords or plain language? (for info on safewords, watch my video on Youtube).This section of the negotiation checklist covers limits (hard and soft), safewords, pushing limits and the sobriety of the participants. This section of the negotiation checklist looks at the who, where and the timing of your scene. This is where the person in authority makes the decisions and the person giving up the authority obeys, even if they don’t want to. Opt-out negotiation means that anything is fair game except the hard limits or activities deemed off limits.Ĭonsensual Non-Consent is typically a relationship style, but some people do structure play within this type of structure. Opt-in negotiation means that only the activities discussed and agreed to are a part of play. Make sure you understand why style of consent and negotiation that you are involved in. ![]() That said, feel free to use any of these suggestions when negotiating relationship dynamics too. The list is more oriented towards play, where people will likely have similar topics to discuss, whereas relationships are very individual. This negotiation checklist is meant as a guideline to help you when planning play or dynamics with new people. We all hear about the importance of negotiation in BDSM play and relationships. ![]()
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